This
book is dedicated to all of the mothers and fathers in America who do not use
tobacco, have quit using it, or are about to quit: For it is their example that
will give the children and youth of our nation the courage to say "No"
to nicotine when that first cigarette is offered them.
WHY
DO YOU SMOKE?
Why
do people smoke? Because others were doing it and so they got started—and
later couldn't stop. And that's about it.
Years
ago a friend told me that he started smoking because a girl on a date dared him
to do it. A man who wishes he had never started, said that he got started so he
could prove to himself he was "a man." Since then he has decided that
the real men never start. They are the ones who have the courage to say No to
social pressure.
"I
had a girl friend who always asked me for a smoke," one man said, "so
I began carrying them around with me, so I would have one when she asked. Then I
started for no particular reason. Now I can't stop."
"My
parents did it, so I thought I should too," is the comment of another.
When
asked whether he got a lift out of smoking, one person replied, "No, the
only effect I notice from smoking is that it makes me want more cigarettes. It
is a vicious cycle; something like a drug. I get so I don't know when I light up
another one."
Another
comment: "I started smoking to be like other people, but it grew on me and
now I can't seem to taper off."
Someone
else says, "Oh, I smoke because it's good for my nerves." If someone
stuck a gun in your back, or if a bull began chasing you across a field, you
would be quite nervous. If you lit up a cigarette just then it would calm you
down—for about one-and-a-half minutes, to be exact. But after that, for
about twenty minutes, you would be more nervous than a man who never smokes.
Actually,
if you only took a smoke when a real crisis occurred—you would rarely take a
smoke. The truth is that you smoke not to meet the problems of life, —but
because the cigarette you finished smoking awhile back left you nervous for
another one.
What
has happened is that you have let yourself get into a habit. Your body has come
to expect feeling its depressant, "soothing" effect every so often.
And if the nicotine flow down your throat does not begin again soon enough, you
become even more edgy and nervous till you get it.
It's
not that you enjoy it. Who enjoys smoking rope and breathing in hot air? Yet
it's not that you are really unhappy with life. The truth is that using nicotine
is a way of life all its own. But before long, the tobacco user begins excusing
the addiction by telling himself that he needs it to meet the "nervous
situations" he meets every day.
But
nervous crises every fifteen to thirty minutes? If you smoke a pack-and-a-half
a day, you smoke one cigarette every thirty-two minutes, on the average
(assuming you sleep eight hours a night). If you are a two-pack smoker, it's one
cigarette every twenty-four minutes. That many crises do not arise every day!
And you don't need that much assurance that you are now grown-up or
sophisticated. And you don't need that many "pleasures" to make life
more bearable.
You
smoke because you have become addicted to it. And you can only stop the
addiction by stopping the smoking.
Well,
then, why not just "taper off"—lessen the amount smoked each
day—until you finally stop entirely? Some people do begin smoking less, and
this is always good. But lessening your smoking will not result in stopping your
smoking.
There
is one other reason why people keep smoking: They do it in order to continue the
habit of fingering the cigarette pack, lighting the match, and holding the
cigarette. A study by three staff members of the Department of Pharmacology of
the Medical College of Virginia, in Richmond, made an interesting study. As
published in "Science," for July 27, 1945, it told about twenty-four
habitual smokers who underwent the test. First, each continued to smoke for a
month, while keeping a careful record of exactly how many he smoked each day.
Then for the next month, they were all given special cigarettes. Unknown to
them, some of these cigarettes had very little nicotine in them. Yet most of
them continued to be quite satisfied.
The
mechanical "carry around, light up and smoke" procedure is a definite
aspect in the problem. People begin feeling assured just because they have
cigarettes with them.
Seeing
what we are faced with helps us realize that smoking can be conquered. There is
nothing as successful as success. And looking over the large numbers of
individuals who have successfully stopped smoking, we find that quitting was the
only way they were able to. The addiction to the drug effects of nicotine and
the habit of "having something in your hands"—both are conquered in
the very same way and at the same time—by touching something else beside a
pack of cigarettes, and by tasting something else beside cigarettes.
Something
was said above about the "pleasure" of smoking. Veteran smokers have
little to say about the "pleasures of smoking." They will honestly
tell you that they do it not because of pleasure.
Burning
tobacco is not much different than is other burning vegetation—wood, leaves,
or weeds. Yet there is not much that is pleasant about sticking your head just
above a burning pile of it—and breathing in the smoke. Yet that is what many
manage to do all through the day with tobacco.
Yet
people will continue to keep their heads in the smoke. Roger Riis in his book,
"The Truth About Smoking," tells of a man with Buerger's Disease (a
peculiar problem nearly always confined to smokers, and which can be cured alone
by quitting it), who was told by a physician at the Ochsner Clinic in New
Orleans that he must discontinue smoking or it would it would be necessary to
amputate his leg.
After
a few minutes of painful silence during which he thought over the alternatives
open to him, he finally spoke up and asked pathetically, "Above the knee,
or below?"
Do
you smoke because you are comfortable with tobacco? As you smoke a cigarette,
think to yourself: does it really satisfy in the way that good food does when
you're hungry? or a warm coat when you’re cold? Of course it doesn't. Light
it, breathe it in, taste what you're getting, put it out. Even as you do, you
know that you'll soon want another and be lighting it. Not because you enjoy it.
You simply want it.
Divorced
from all the glamour and excitement of your first smoke years ago, just what is
it worth? Nothing. How did that first smoke taste? Gaseous, strong, bitter. Has
it really gotten any better as the years went by? Not a bit.
You've
become a smoking habit, putting up day after day with the harsh taste, the hot
dryness, the mouth bite, and the after let-down—and all for a reason you don't
really know.
Life
is full of habits. Eating, dressing, thinking, working, and even attitudes, are
the result of habits. Habits make it easier to get things done. But habits are
not our masters. We change the habit simply by consciously changing our actions.
Do it differently for awhile and soon you have veered away from an old habit
into a new one.
With
habits functioning automatically, that which you do proceeds more smoothly. The
skilled musician who tries to think through the next portion of a difficult
number is sure to make a mistake. But if he instead trusts to his habit patterns
of fingering, timing, and following of musical notations, will probably do
just fine.
And
so with the cigarette habit: taking it out of the pack, tapping it on the thumb
nail, using a match or lighter, keeping it burning even on a windy day, puffing
away. And then other habits form: taking a smoke upon arising, and then right
after breakfast, and on and on through the day. It becomes your buddy that you
carry around with you.
So
in order to stop, you keep a careful watch over your habits and the new ones you
are substituting for the old ones. Not only what you do in place of lighting
up, but what you do after those regular events of the day when you would
normally light another one. In this way you safeguard that you will not
unthinkingly begin again.
"I
have discontinued my use of cigarettes on more than one occasion. Twice I have
gone as long as three months without smoking. But then I would go to a party and
take a few drinks. After the party was over, I would find myself smoking
again." That is why one man kept going back to something he didn't want to
do: He did not remain on the alert.
There
is embodied in the above story a powerful truth: The person who allows himself
to indulge one bad habit weakens his will so that it becomes easier to indulge
another. And there need not be a chemical relationship between hot spices,
coffee, nicotine, alcohol, marijuana, cocaine, or heroin. But it is a known
fact that building a desire for unnatural cravings, uppers and downers, starts
one on an uncertain road. It is a matter of personal mastery. Indulgence in one
habit that is harmful to the body will condition the mind to accept other
harmful habits.
The
individual who refuses to be dominated by any habit is the individual who can
the most easily say No, when invited by people or circumstances to light up. In
contrast, the person who becomes involved in tobacco may find it hard to
maintain his independence of decision in the face of other habits that confront
him.
The
Keeley Institute for the Cure of Alcoholism requires all patients to abstain
from tobacco. When asked why they have this requirement, they indicated that the
cure of alcoholism requires a restructuring of the personality. A strengthening
of the will is needed in order to resist alcohol when friends and associates
offer it to graduates of the Keeley Institute. The professionals at Keeley
have concluded that the conquest of tobacco is equally important.
A
man must be able to assert his will and say to tobacco as well as alcohol,
"No, I am the boss here; out with you both."
The
cigarette smoker finally recognizes that he really has not enjoyed smoking; he
was in a habit. He sees that it really is injuring his body, his family, and his
work. He admits that it will lay him in an earlier grave if he does not quit.
And, last but not least, he decides that he has to do it now and not later.
A
typist can not type without certain typing habits and nearby physical
accessories, such as a typewriter, copy, paper and ribbons. A violinist cannot
play without certain note-reading, fingering, and bowing habits, and also a
violin, and bow.
So
with the smoker: it takes just the right combination of habits and
circumstances—in order for smoking to occur. To break with the nuisance of
smoking, first the packs need to be thrown out, then the ex-smoker must keep his
fingers busy doing something else. And it may mean avoiding some associates.
We're
getting closer to Quit Day. Take courage in the fact that thousands of others
have successfully quit the habit. Just as surely as they did it, you can too.
The
following two chapters outline reasons, non-medical and medical, why you
should stop using tobacco.
You
may wish to read them next—or you may wish to skip over them and begin the
chapters on how to quit. (Some folk may want to save the next two chapters for
encouraging reading after Quit Day: after they have made the break with
tobacco.)